How to Describe Personality in Italian: 'È socievole' and 'È un po' timida'
Learn to describe character in Italian with essere plus adjectives, agree the adjective with the person, and compare people using più and meno.
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Describing someone's character in Italian works differently from describing their appearance. You still use the verb essere (to be), but the adjective must agree in gender and number with the person you are talking about. This lesson gives you the core adjectives for personality, shows how to soften a description with un po' (a bit), and explains how to compare two people with più (more) and meno (less). You will also learn why 'He is outgoing' cannot be translated word for word.
By the end, you can…
- describe someone's character using essere plus a personality adjective that agrees in gender and number.
- soften a description with un po' and compare two people using più and meno.
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Lui è socievole.
He's outgoing / sociable.
LOO-ee eh soh-CHEH-voh-leh
Socievole ends in -e and stays the same for masculine and feminine, so it is easy to reuse.
Lei è un po' timida.
She's a bit shy.
LAY eh oon poh TEE-mee-dah
Timido changes to timida for a woman. Un po' softens the statement so it sounds less blunt.
Mio fratello è più estroverso di me.
My brother is more outgoing than me.
MEE-oh frah-TEL-loh eh pyoo es-troh-VER-soh dee meh
Use più ... di to compare two people. Di me means 'than me'.
Siamo molto diversi come carattere.
We are very different in character.
SYAH-moh MOL-toh dee-VER-see KOH-meh kah-RAT-teh-reh
Come carattere means 'in terms of character' and keeps the comparison about personality, not looks.
Non è antipatico, è solo un po' riservato.
He's not unfriendly, he's just a bit reserved.
non eh an-tee-PAH-tee-koh eh SOH-loh oon poh ree-zer-VAH-toh
Riservato is a neutral, polite way to describe someone who does not open up quickly.
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Useful pattern
The basic pattern is person + essere + adjective: Marco è simpatico (Marco is friendly), Anna è simpatica (Anna is friendly). The adjective must match the person: -o for masculine, -a for feminine, -i for masculine plural, -e for feminine plural. Adjectives ending in -e, like socievole and gentile, do not change for gender: Marco è socievole, Anna è socievole. To compare, use più (more) or meno (less) before the adjective: Luca è più timido di Paolo (Luca is shyer than Paolo).
When to use it
Use these adjectives for lasting character traits, not for moods. Oggi è nervoso (today he is irritable) describes a temporary state; è nervoso as a character description means he is a nervous person. In conversation, Italians often soften judgments with un po' (a bit), abbastanza (quite) or molto (very): è un po' timida, è abbastanza socievole, è molto gentile. If you want to be careful, say com'è di carattere? (what is he like in character?) before you describe someone.
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Com'è tua sorella di carattere?
What is your sister like in character?koh-MEH TOO-ah soh-REL-lah dee kah-RAT-teh-rehÈ un po' timida, ma è molto gentile.
She's a bit shy, but she's very kind.eh oon poh TEE-mee-dah mah eh MOL-toh JEN-tee-lehE tuo fratello? È più socievole di lei?
And your brother? Is he more outgoing than her?eh TOO-oh frah-TEL-loh eh pyoo soh-CHEH-voh-leh dee laySì, lui è estroverso, ma anche un po' testardo.
Yes, he's outgoing, but also a bit stubborn.see LOO-ee eh es-troh-VER-soh mah AN-keh oon poh tes-TAR-dohA little context goes a long way
Italians often use character adjectives in a friendly, informal way, and a mild criticism such as è un po' testardo can be affectionate. Still, adjectives like pigro (lazy) or avaro (stingy) are strong; use them only with people you know well, or soften them with un po'. Regional usage varies: in the south, simpatico often means warm and easy to get along with, while in the north it can simply mean pleasant.
One thing to watch for
Learners often say *Lui è estroverso* for a woman or forget agreement, producing *Anna è simpatico*.
Try this instead: Make the adjective agree with the person: Anna è simpatica, Marco è simpatico, Anna e Marco sono simpatici. With adjectives ending in -e, no gender change is needed: Anna è socievole, Marco è socievole.
Your turn
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1How do you say 'She is a bit shy' in Italian?
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Lei è un po' timida.
Timida agrees with a feminine subject, and un po' softens the description. Lei è un po' riservata is also correct if you mean reserved rather than shy.
2Translate: 'My brother is more outgoing than me.'
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Mio fratello è più estroverso di me.
Use più before the adjective and di me for 'than me'. Mio fratello è più socievole di me also works, since socievole and estroverso overlap in meaning.
3Which form is correct for a woman: 'Marco è gentile' or 'Anna è gentile'?
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Both are correct: gentile ends in -e and does not change for gender.
Adjectives ending in -e, such as gentile, socievole and intelligente, have one form for masculine and feminine singular. Only the plural changes to -i: Anna e Marco sono gentili.
Use essere plus a personality adjective, make it agree with the person, soften with un po', and compare with più or meno plus di.
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